I learned this past week that my 17 y.o. son's friends call me a health nut. At first I wasn't sure how to take that because I sort of heard him say it without much emotion or follow up comment. So later I decided to have this conversation so I could find out if it was said in a positive or negative tone.
My son, we'll call him Jteen, was discussing food with his friends, something he does frequently because he's always hungry. He's a growing teen with the metabolism fast enough to fuel a train. If only I could harbor that energy for myself. Anyway, the kids were talking about what they eat or were planning to eat after school. Jteen said, "we don't have any soda or junk food at home." To which one teen replied, "oh that's right, your mom is a health nut, ha ha!" Another teen said, "no junk food or soda for him." They all laughed, he said, then the next comment was my favorite..."that's pretty cool that your mom is a health nut, so you really enjoy it when she does buy junk food." Another teen said, "no wonder I never see you buying anything from the junk machine."
Now, I'm sure not everyone agreed with him or me but it made me realize that the choices I make at home have influenced my child and he may somehow influence his friends too. My goal was not to be cool in the eyes of teens but to positively influence my children. I'm glad to see that they make wise choices in food and portion sizes.
We do have snacks in our pantry. You will find a bag of Tostitos for those days when we feel like eating nachos, a box of Ritz crackers for a quick cheese, apple and crackers appetizer, some 100 calorie snacks for a quick to-go snack, pudding cups, pretzel sticks, granola bars, protein bars, lots of fruit, nuts...etc. The thing is that these snacks last a while in the pantry which means my kids are making wise choices when they eat and they are more then likely eating portion controlled snacks.
I am proud to be a "health nut" mom. It's a plus that his friends think "it's cool" to be a health nut.
How do you think your everyday food and exercise decisions influence those around you? Your spouse? Your kids? Your friends? Would love to hear some of your stories.
Stay Well,
Spin Diva
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